[Sienna_Rose]

I won't tell anyone that they have to leave. But, I will point out - and I hope you take this as politely as it is intended - the Code of Conduct has always been over characters. That's how it's been since we moved to ENWorld, and, though my memory is too bad to recall, I believe we had at least some rules back on Wizards.
If you prefer not to have rules, yes, there are other places to play. If you don't mind the rules, or even like them (I'm enough of a goody two shoes that, yes, I like having rules), then remain. No one is forcing anyone to stay.