| Carrot and the stick. You've spoiled your players with too many options, it is time to lay down the law, in real life most of us are restricted through social or financial circumstances.
You need to get the balance back in the game and some plot railroading and 'focus' by the player characters is needed.
Dont forget: Your suppose to be having fun too.
I DM exclusively and I forgot that for a couple of years during late 3.5 era. I'm much happier now and my games are banging!!
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