To the OP, I would suggest letting your players have the following:
PHB1
PHB2
Non-magical weapons from AV, excluding Double Weapons
The swordmage class from
FR (if anybody wants one)
The extra weapons from AV are nice because the selection for Superior weapons in the PHB is abysmal.
Ryujin, is there a way to stop the unchecked stuff from actually showing up in the lists? All of the splat items are still there, they just make the character marked "houseruled in X" if you pick them.
Edit: the powers and feats disappear just fine, it's only the magic items that refuse to go away (and they are by far the biggest annoyance!).