I'm in Grand Rapids (right off M-6 or 131 depending on where we meet), not sure how far you're willing to drive. We are about to start a home brew
4E campaign the last Wed in July. From Sept to May it's every other Friday 6:30-11:30 but during the summer we have to find dates that work for everyone.
Four of us are married guys with jobs and kids who make time to game. We've had spouses game as well, but none currently. Gaming with friends is the main goal, but playing a long running campaign is a close second. We like player driven campaigns, team tactics, and group roleplaying.
I'll check back here to see if GR is an option for you. And with
4E, you don't even have to play the cleric to get a spot at the table!
Charlie