Nerd means nerd. If you can't name one nerdy thing you enjoy to do, or one nerdy thing that you like odds are you're not a nerd. That comment about #nerd was referring to the stupid twitter trend were any person puts on glasses and simply says #nerd. I want a girl with common nerdy interests, or at least nerdy interests of her own. There are many things that are considered nerdy, in fact there are too many to name. My point was simply that you don't choose to be a nerd its who you are. Just like you don't choose you skin tone or your gender you are born with it.