I am in the general area as well -- just moved back here -- and would be interested in finding a gaming group.
I am pretty flexible with regards to system, though with respect to D&D, I am decidedly in the 4e camp (3.5 was a bit mechanistic for my tastes).
I am not in the military, so I wouldn't think there would be any fraternization issues either. If you are still looking, let me know.