Hey, thanks for the invite, man. I'm out of the loop, though. I didn't even know there were warlord threads, much less that there was currently tension on it, or a sub forum. Heck, I barely visit the site these days, much less post. Out of your options, I like commander. If it's based on what I think of when I think of a Warlord (which is 4e, because that's what used that name).
If we're going to a broad idea of a warlord (again, I've apparently completely missed all the debates on this), I'm sticking with commander. I think it has less baggage. Commanders do give commands, they do lead, they do inspire. It has some baggage, but it's a much better fit than warlord, which I would have never connected to skirmish commander before 4e.