PhiloPharynx
Explorer
As I said, I prefer a happy medium. I tend to have a lot of rules expertise, and I generally offer different options that fit with the other character's background and flavor. I don't present it as "you'd better take X or you're a dumbass" I tend to say, "X offers you Y, and it connects to your time with the Monks of Zygoth. Or R offers you S and fits your style of shielding others."Question then is are you willing to come down to their level or are you going to pester them until they climb up to yours? Some folks want to learn the system by trying it themselves and a lot of folks try to prevent that.
I'm not trying to prevent them from learning. I try and explain what some of the options are.