Now on to what might be my favourite Korean drama we've watched in the last year or so, and it's all very slice of life but also quite sharp.
Because This is My First Life (2017; Netflix, Tubi)
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I'm surprised this drama is almost a decade old because it feels very up to date in many ways, especially about how modern relationships work, about cost of living, about how realistic expectations for modern young people in Korea are very, very different than for earlier generations.
Yoon Ji-ho (Jung So-min, you might have seen her in Alchemy of Souls) is a broke young writer from a poor rural family who is basically made homeless when she breaks up with her feckless boyfriend. In sheer desperation (after a couple of very realistic scenes where she visits some really terrible apartments for rent, and sleeps over at her studio and is nearly sexually assaulted) she agrees to become a roommate with Nam Se-hee, a pleasant (if clearly on the spectrum) IT guy who owns his own place but needs some extra rent and really values a roommate who keeps to themselves and tidies up.
However, Se-hee's mum (their family is rich and posh, but not chaebol or anything by any means) is scandalised when she discovers that her son is sharing with a girl. After a certain amount of fairly awkward discussion, Se-hee proposes a typically wacky but practical solution - Ji-ho should marry him in name only so his mum won't mind, also signing what amounts to a formal roommate contract, agreeing to divorce after a set time or when wished.
Ji-ho is a little more romantic than Se-hee but her practicality overcomes her sentiment and she agrees. And so begins a very odd friendship which turns into a courtship, where the two are married before they get together (as they eventually do, but my word, do they take the long way round).
There are two parallel couples.
Because This is My First Life (2017; Netflix, Tubi)
Because This Is My First Life - Wikipedia
I'm surprised this drama is almost a decade old because it feels very up to date in many ways, especially about how modern relationships work, about cost of living, about how realistic expectations for modern young people in Korea are very, very different than for earlier generations.
Yoon Ji-ho (Jung So-min, you might have seen her in Alchemy of Souls) is a broke young writer from a poor rural family who is basically made homeless when she breaks up with her feckless boyfriend. In sheer desperation (after a couple of very realistic scenes where she visits some really terrible apartments for rent, and sleeps over at her studio and is nearly sexually assaulted) she agrees to become a roommate with Nam Se-hee, a pleasant (if clearly on the spectrum) IT guy who owns his own place but needs some extra rent and really values a roommate who keeps to themselves and tidies up.
However, Se-hee's mum (their family is rich and posh, but not chaebol or anything by any means) is scandalised when she discovers that her son is sharing with a girl. After a certain amount of fairly awkward discussion, Se-hee proposes a typically wacky but practical solution - Ji-ho should marry him in name only so his mum won't mind, also signing what amounts to a formal roommate contract, agreeing to divorce after a set time or when wished.
Ji-ho is a little more romantic than Se-hee but her practicality overcomes her sentiment and she agrees. And so begins a very odd friendship which turns into a courtship, where the two are married before they get together (as they eventually do, but my word, do they take the long way round).
There are two parallel couples.
- First, there's Su-ji (Ji-ho's friend who is a driven career woman who faces a metric ton of sexism and sexual harassment at work and really wants to run her own company) and her boyfriend/booty call/whatever Sang-goo (Se-hee's best friend and boss at his IT company, who's romantic but frustrated about Korean sexism and customs, and really tries his best to be a good guy).
- And then there's Ho-rang (Ji-ho and Su-ji's friend who works as a waitress and really wants to get married and have kids) and her boyfriend Won-seok (a nerdy coder who's trying to get his startup off the ground and is unhappy that he can't offer Ho-rang anything resembling financial stability).








