Read more carefully perhaps? If you require a save to decide if you are in the "mood" to react to something affecting your PC or not it proves the point. Also "many people"?... were all those instances of "I" like the royal we? Keep in mind that the Lovecraftian Ravenloft domain wasn't and still isn't the straw that crossed the line, that was simply an example where there were not one but two reasons why the world itself would be justified in saying "no" to players who feel like they can simply decide if their character reacts to something affecting their character.What are you talking about? It's not an issue. I gave an example where many people would be frightened such as a haunted house while I may or may not be. Some people get scared watching a horror movie, some don't. I want to apply the same logic to my character, and think about how easily frightened (or angered or persuaded) they would be. I don't want it dictated by rules or dice unless it's supernatural.
If a DM asks me to make a Wisdom saving throw I'm going to assume there's some supernatural effect. If they tell me that I have to make the saving throw because in my background I was once scared of a dog and Fido, a totally normal dog, just came around the corner I'm going to disagree with the call. On the other hand if Fido is really a Yeth Hound and just used their Baleful Howl ability it's fine because they are baying magically. On the other hand if a Tarrasque walks around the corner my character might be turning tale and running.
Yor post is still showing why the rule that grants that player entitlement is relevant. Not one of the posters who declared that right to "control" their PC by ignoring the world(again any world not just Lovecraftian Ravenloft domain) made any effort to point to something granting players the option but multiple posters (yourself including) are eager to automatically give it a pass by declaring that the gm needs to do x y & z or that the gm can't do p z &q because RAW while completely dithering over if it's even reasonable to call for or understood why one would call for the rule granting players author level control over a PC that they expect the option of choosing when how and if the world impacts their PC as a reasonable expectation for a player to simply declare mid game and only after being called on it.








