The player is clearly level 1, and he is basically given no option to contribute. The 'I phase away before you can hit me' fight has always been kind of BS, but at least at higher levels you have options. Here? They're clearly very low level characters facing the most annoying type of fight, without the tools to reliably deal with that. The warlock player tries something to contribute, is told 'actually that screws you over worse', and we're expecting him to just be fine with that?
When 'I pull down my pants and take a piss' is basically as effective as anything he can do in combat right now, how is it fair in any way? Genuinely, as written, this looks like the GM is targeting him