I started thinking about this. My mom would never admit to being racist, because I honestly believe, she doesn't think she is racist. I've heard the comments, she's racist. Despite spending her entire life in the South, she claims she never saw segregation. She was born in 1949 South Carolina. She lived in Texas in the 50s and 60s. Graduated highschool in Georgia. Don't tell me she didn't witness segregation.
Correct me if I'm wrong on this, this what systemic racism looks like. She doesn't see herself as racist but it influences her decision making. This is also the very thing Critical Race Theory is about. It's way too complex for children to understand. Hell, it's too complex for some adults to understand. I don't know why anyone would believe it's being taught to children.
I don't think she sees my youngest niece and nephew as brown, but see them as white, because they were raised by white people. I'll never hear her say anything about them, but she has a lot to say about others. To be honest, they see themselves more as white too. They are aware of how others might see them though. Skin and hair color first.
I'm also aware of my own racism. I am a product of the environment in which I was raised. I acknowledge it and always strive to overcome it.