Thomas Shey
Legend
I feel like this is the root of at least 50% of issues here and maybe in life generally.
You're not wrong, but I think its less the difference in core premises, as having those differences and not being aware of it. Which is usually some mixture of lack of self-awareness and poor communication.
There have been a number of times I've found myself in an argument with my wife and we eventually stop and go, "wait a second, what exactly do you think we're arguing about?"
I had one with mine many, many years ago before we were married where it got very heated and it turned out a term one of us was using (I no longer remember which one) had a significantly difference in its implications where the other was used to seeing it (I'm from Southern Cal and she was from East Texas, so there was potential for that present).







