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Message: <blockquote data-quote="BigFreekinGoblinoid" data-source="post: 2301610" data-attributes="member: 5988">Forgive me if I'm off base, but from your description, it sounds like you are the problem, not him.  Some guys just like to limit their involvement to game night. No biggie. As long as he is present and involved while there, i'm sure you will be fine. Trying to change him won't work - don't try.Let the other players drive the campaign specifics around him. In-game "trust issues" just present fodder for the DM. Try and see it as an opportunuty. We can't all be leaders. That is just an function of personality and priorities. You'll get less irritated with him if you lower your expectations for him in particular and just focus on those that are grabbing/creating spotlight/story. Next campaign, fill his space with someone else if that is your preference.From my experiences, I'd say you should count your self as lucky that you have ANY players invested as much as you have, let alone more than one. This is a good thing - don;t blow it.</blockquote>