Hi, Sam. If you hit reply to any thread, it will pull up a Smilies box. Hit More for the full list, which includes the symbols you desire. Then copy & paste away!
Blind Sam, both links by JanusDreamweaver lead to the same font. What is unique about that font is that it contains two symbols normally only found in Dragon and Dungeon Magazines (a rolled up dragon, and crossed swords).
For everything else (melee, basic melee, close), use this font instead. It's IMO superior to the above font and nearly perfectly sized to the one used in the MM.