I play mainly in person, using books. That is my preference.
I'm not anti-VTT. I will and have played online. Tbh, a big hurdle for me when it comes to many online groups is that something about Discord just doesn't click for my brain. I've used plenty of other things ranging from Roll20 to Rpol (play-by-post) to even cobbling something together using a Facebook group (during Covid). No issues with any of the other online resources.
I suppose, technically, I do pay for online gaming resources. Some of the recent crowdfunding campaigns that I've supported offer VTT support either as a funding goal or as an add-on for a small fee. While I do not currently have a dedicated VTT that I use, the reality is that I probably will have art least one online group in the future. So, a couple extra bucks to get virtual resources occasionally makes sense.
Likewise, many things come with free pdf copies. For example, the DCC Against the Thieves Guild adventure (that I can see on the shelf beside me) includes a digital code inside the front cover. That code unlocks a pdf version of the adventure.
When I do play D&D, it is either 5.0 (2014) or an older edition. The few OSRIC things that I own are essentially AD&D 1E. Most often, I play games that aren't D&D.
I don't go out of my way to intentionally watch YouTubers talk about D&D, but ttrpg YouTubers that I occasionally listen to sometimes talk about D&D. Occasionally, if I'm doing something tedious at work, I might listen to a video in the background and just let the algorithm autoplay a few.
Ones that come up tend to be Dungeons & Discourse; Professor DM; easyRPG! (formerly easyGURPs); ...looking at my history... that about covers it. Occasionally, Bob the Worldbuilder pops up, but that's typically not D&D. I follow the Steve Jackson Games YouTube channel, but that's also not D&D and the channel has been quiet for a while. There are a few that I tried watching but found that their advice and general philosophy on gaming started at a place that was different than mine and diverged further from there as I started to play games other than WotC D&D.