No, just as I didn't miss the last two lines where you say "Games don't qualify as RPG's" and "RPG's don't qualify as games" which are absolute statements.
If you are not arguing that your definition must be followed then I'm not clear what your point is. It seems like you are just assuming your definition is correct and therefore those who disagree with you are necessarily wrong. If that's not the case can please explain what your point is?
I'm having a discussion. Argument is down the hall. Yes, I believe that RPG's are game creation engines and the "game" of an RPG is "RPG+Scenario". I've never argued that RPG's can never be played. Game's aren't RPG's because you don't need "Scenario" in order to play a game. RPG's
on their own are not games because you cannot play an RPG without first creating a scenario.
IOW, RPG's are distinguished from other kinds of things that we play in that you have this extra step involved before you can play.
By your reasoning no one in history has ever played poker. No one has ever played baseball either because every league has variations of the rules. No one has ever played football or soccer or volleyball as well. So all the millions and millions of people who say they play poker, baseball, football, soccer, and/or volleyball are completely wrong, they don't know what they are talking about.
That would be correct. Again, tell me how to play poker. Without referencing which kind of poker you are playing, tell me the rules of the game and how we can play.
The answer is, you can't. It is impossible to play Poker without specifying exactly what kind of poker you are playing. It's no different than if I tell you I'm baking cookies. How do you bake cookies without specifying what kind of cookies you are making? Now, in casual conversation, I will certainly say, "I baked cookies this morning". Sure, not problem. Language is full of ambiguities. But, until either you ask or you taste, you have no idea what I actually made, other than it's probably small, uses flour and eggs and was made in an oven. Which could also be tarts, muffins or a thousand other things.
You are insisting that the vague conversational shorthand that we use is definitional. It's not. You're right that you cannot play football without specifying what kind of football you are playing. Are you playing American Football? Canadian Football? Soccer? If I tell you I watched a football game yesterday, do you actually know what I watched? Of course not. It's simply a vague shorthand and you would need to ask more questions to narrow down what I actually watched.
Now, your last bit, "They don't know what they are talking about" is not true. Of course the person playing KNOWS what they played. They know because the variation that they played was chosen by the participants. The observers know what was played, because they watched the game. But to anyone else? They have only a vague idea what was played and would require the person to be more specific before they could actually talk about the experience.
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Language is full of vagueness. Simply stating, "I played a game of poker" doesn't actually tell the listener anything. Until such time as you add more information, the listener cannot know what you actually did. There are a multitude of variations of games. In order to communicate effectively about whatever activity the speaker actually did, simply using vague categories doesn't work. Baseball is a category. Basketball is a category. Poker is a category. The actual game that is played isn't "Poker". That's just a category. Like "car".
The reason I'm arguing for this definition of RPG's is that it is a more clear explanation of what I'm doing. I just finished a session of playing D&D. That doesn't really tell you very much does it? I just finished a session of my 5e D&D campaign using Out of the Abyss, where the PC's are in Chapter 16, The Fetid Wedding, tells you a hell of a lot more. Did I play Dungeons and Dragons? Well, yes, in conjunction with the campaign that I'm running, I did. But, remove that Out of the Abyss book, and my players and I would be staring at each other in silence for 3 hours.
The game of an RPG = The RPG + Campaign (or scenario, or whatever word fits here better).