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Glory to Marik
I kept coming back to D&D...until 4E. Though, mostly it was PF that taught me what I was really trying to get out of D&D. Detailed settings with complex adventures and fully customizable chargen. 5E has some of what I want, but not enough. Coupling that with my dabbling with other systems which became a full time exploration. Publishers have gotten better, but so have I when it comes to making my own material.I think they always were, though. In 1983-1985 or so, I know for sure that I played some Star Frontiers, some Top Secret, dabbled a bit in Call of Cthulhu and even had a look at James Bond and a few others. But we always came back to and played a lot more D&D than anything else. I'm not sure that I can explain why; I had just as much fun with those other games (and more) but somehow D&D was always the common denominator of the hobby.
And even some of the non-D&D games, like Legends of the Five Rings or RuneQuest or EarthDawn or whatever else we flirted with were still definitely fantasy, in the same wheelhouse more or less as D&D.
Now, my break has been more in the last 10 years, but I realized ive been trying to break from D&D for much longer. I know from the folks I chat with online and in person im not alone there. I do get your story though and how the gravity of D&D fantasy is too much for many to break from. Assuming, of course, they want to.








