Pathfinder 1E Aether Elemental School, Possessed Hand.

I'm going to start playing in a new pathfinder urban campaign. I have not played a wizard since 3.0. Please offer any advice on feats, race, and spells. I'm leaning towards Aether Elemental School and human because possessed hand has such a high feat tax. My RP day job will be that I'm a medium.

Traits
Focused Mind


Feats
Possessed Hand
Combat Casting
Hand’s Autonomy
Hand’s Detachment

Maybe
Hand’s Sight
Hand’s Knowledge