I know I'm asking for it to say this HERE, but here goes:
Playing D&D is bad.
Don't misunderstand me. I love the game. But spending time playing it, when all of humanity has SO MANY more important things to do, like helping the hungry and poor and sick, researching cures and advancing science, and so on, is bad.
I know what you may be thinking - doesn't this apply to almost everything we do? The answer is yes. And after a few idealistic years, usually in our teens or college years, most of us get tired of trying to find a place to get a good grip on the gargantuan tasks that we face as a species, especially with others who have given up fighting us, and give up to go focus on just our own little piece. From within that perspective, D&D is pretty darned good. As compared to actively making trouble for other people, or indulging in actively self-destructive behavior.
But make no mistake about it. D&D is bad. But so what? You're soaking in bad all over, and most of it is a LOT worse.....