Sacrosanct
Legend
sure.Realism doesn't work that way.
First off, it's a spectrum. Your tolerance for what is unrealistic as far as wheelchair movement might be greater or less than mine. It's not all or nothing.
No, what is hypocritical is you (general you from here on out) completely ignoring that low STR/CON PC's trouble to try to walk through 2 feet of mud but all the sudden crying "realism" to punish someone in a wheelchair. Want to punish someone in a wheelchair because it makes in game sense to do so? Knock yourself out. Don't have a problem with that. But I have a bit of an eyebrow raise when people start using these examples of why target people in wheelchairs while ignoring how "realism" would also make it near impossible for nearly anyone (let alone a low str/con PC) to trek through 2 feet of mud. Or to scale a cliff. Or even to climb a rope up a cliff. Have you done any of those things? They are hard. Really hard. For "normal" people. Especially if not trained. I'd bet 90% of the posters here couldn't walk more than 50 feet in 2 feet of mud while kitted out. Even with skill checks. But in game, we ignore stuff like that all the time because the game isn't fun if you enforced reality.Now if I were to as a DM rule that your PC in his wheelchair could not possible be moved through two foot deep mud because it's not realistic, then when you had your turn to DM I argued that my wheelchair bound PC should be able to move through two feet of mud, THAT would be hypocritical. I'd never do that, though.
But I bet you hand wave away most of those those things (who does nothing but skill check after skill check all night long, because that's what "realism" would be) and just assume the PCs find a way. Just like we should be doing with people in a wheelchair. Unless it's critical, handle like anything else you're assuming in every game session--assume the PCs find a way to make it work.
Third, a lot of us do run low str/con people through the realism wringer when it comes to walking through two feet of mud or walking up 1000 stairs. There would be stat checks, exhaustion and resting in that PC's future in my game and in many other games. Stats mean things.
Hypocrisy is allowing skill checks even for the most feeble but automatically ruling "you can't do that" for someone in a wheelchair. if "realistically" neither can do a task, but you allow a check with one and not the other, that's hypocrisy. You're ignoring realism in one scenario but enforcing in another. Why? "My spectrum is different than yours" is a weak sauce excuse to hand wave away a double standard in how you apply skill checks.