How similar am I to you?

twofalls

DM Beadle
When I was 9 I fell in love with role-playing. There wasn't much to choose from then, there was D&D and... well there was D&D. As I grew up more and more games were introduced into the market and I found myself in the position of being a lower income bracket child in a slowly expanding universe, which just happened to also include these fascinatingly addictive RPG's. I could just barely keep up with D&D by scraping my allowance together with my weekend lawn mowing money, and had to watch (and play) as my friends purchased manner of neat games that were coming out. A lot of my friends at that time in my life were from uptown due to the nature of the school I went to, and my parents couldn't afford the plentiful luxuries their parents could (like a storefront's worth of RPG books). Instead all they gave me lots of love and attention... sigh, some guys have all the luck. ;)
After school my pocketbook expanded while my love of RPG's remained. I was married at 19 and started a family just three years later, so throughout my 20's my collection grew at a lower priority than I'd have liked, but still much faster than before. I exhibited a trait that has followed me only in my RPG collecting; that of NEVER getting rid of anything related to gaming. I still have the first RPG book I ever purchased sitting on my bookshelf collecting little other than dust (but doing it proudly damnit) :)
Now, a professional in my mid 30's I have a huge collection of RPG's of all stripes. I still love collecting games and I run two D&D games, one every other week (so I get to game every weekend). For people in my age/economic category I get to play far more than most, but still my game collection outpaces my time. I have a couple hundred books that are on my shelves yet unread, only thumbed through with a mental note on them to read them soon. My boyhood fantasy of catching up with my rich friends subconsciously satiated I still have this yearning to play more games. "Sigh". I wish GM's would be paid for their labors. My wife (20 years together now… she is incredible) has endured my collecting and playing over the years with a sweet smile. Lord I love that lady.
I'm not rich, and please don't turn this thread into a "haves vs. have nots" conversation, though I joked at it early on, that's not why I wrote this. It's just a bit of a self indulgent and honest evaluation of my game addiction and were it's taken me. I’m wondering if I'm alone in the way my bizarre world of fantasy and cybershooters collecting has developed. I’m very curious about other people’s stories.

BTW, if Teflon Billy reads this post, I purchased the book "Ex Machina" based soley on your Enworld review and my love of the genre. This book rocks on toast with jam! Excellent review! :)
 

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I started a little earlier then you and finding D&D books was very hard around here at the time. It wasn't until I could drive that I started realizing there were other games out there. In college is where the gaming exploded as I really got to try many many diufferent games, but I bought little. After college on my own is when the RPG collection started to grow but only in the past few years has it really exploded. I am single though and so have less montary responsibilities like a family requires of one. I make a point of reading ever book I get front to back. If I';m not going to read it, I'm not going to buy it. I find placing that limitation helps me not go crazy with the buying.
 

Frukathka said:
This seems like an off topic conversation.

I hadn't thought about it, but you're right, it is. Can I move it?

Crothian said:
I started a little earlier then you and finding D&D books was very hard around here at the time. It wasn't until I could drive that I started realizing there were other games out there. In college is where the gaming exploded as I really got to try many many diufferent games, but I bought little. After college on my own is when the RPG collection started to grow but only in the past few years has it really exploded. I am single though and so have less montary responsibilities like a family requires of one. I make a point of reading ever book I get front to back. If I';m not going to read it, I'm not going to buy it. I find placing that limitation helps me not go crazy with the buying.

Do you find that you get to play very often? I suppose that without a wife and kids you have more time to play many different games. One of my game buddies is involved in perpetual engagement with a gamer gal, and he playes in 7 different campaigns. I think he games every night. :confused:
 

Geez...I started at 11, in 1979. We were bike riding, and came upon a little store where I lived then, McAllen Texas, called "the Dungeon". Well, me and my buddy went in, and that was all she wrote. We started in an Empire of the Petal Throne game, that day. I have soooo much game material, I don't know what to do with it...Here I am, at 38 now. 2 broken engagements, no kids, family still in good health, and gaming every Sunday, with the same folks since 1988...And happy for it. I actually had a chance to move away, with a girl, about 8 years ago, and a deciding factor, aside from job and family, was my gaming buddies. I'm glad you posted this thred, it really made me feel good...

BTW...Runequest II campaign for 10 years....best system, and world, and campaign of all time...

Pat.
 

twofalls said:
... BTW, if Teflon Billy reads this post, I purchased the book "Ex Machina" based soley on your Enworld review and my love of the genre. This book rocks on toast with jam! Excellent review! :)

WooT! That book still sits on my nightstand:)

To answer your question, my story is alot like yours (I was poor as well, but my friends were also poor).

My office is, likewise, filled with RPG's
 


twofalls said:
Do you find that you get to play very often? I suppose that without a wife and kids you have more time to play many different games. One of my game buddies is involved in perpetual engagement with a gamer gal, and he playes in 7 different campaigns. I think he games every night. :confused:

I run a weekly Stargate game, I play in a by weekly D&D game, and I'm about to start a by weekly Paranoia game. I could game more but really I like to do other things besides game and may cut back on my gaming schedule some.
 

... Wow, my story is nothing like yours. I didn't get into D&D until 3.0 came out in 2001 and never did a lot of roleplaying before that. A little acting, though, and writing.
 

Patman21967 said:
I'm glad you posted this thred, it really made me feel good...
Thanks Pat, that was a really nice thing for you to say! :)

Crothian said:
... I like to do other things besides game and may cut back on my gaming schedule some.
Say it ain't true!!! Crothain, dude... please say it ain't so! :confused: Cutting back on gaming when you don't have to? Isn't that like choosing to only breath once every ten heartbeats, or deciding that 6 hours of sleep is for the lazy, or for the love of god, cutting back on pizza? (That last was even hard to type.)
 

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