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<blockquote data-quote="HeapThaumaturgist" data-source="post: 2765103" data-attributes="member: 12332"><p>Huh. I dunno why I see so much of this kind of stuff in the gamer subculture. Did people not get enough hot hot lovin' in highschool or something? </p><p></p><p>At any rate, it's your bag. They made it your situation when they decided to start carrying things out at your place. They might have never gotten into it if the people around them didn't sit idle, in fact.</p><p></p><p>Me. I'd want to be told about it. </p><p></p><p>For myself, the first person I'd go to is the "Cheater" guy. I guess that's part of my "Guy Code" upbringing. Dudes don't let dudes do dudes' girls, etc. I'd tell him that it wasn't cool, that you don't do that sort of thing to one of the bros, and that at the very least he couldn't carry things on like that in your house.</p><p></p><p>EDIT: If it feels like a "Gamer Group Issue", then I guess you could take it up with them. If it's a long-term friends issue, I'd take it up with the fellow first. If you've been friends with her and her husband longer, take it up with her first. And if the "guy" and the "girl" are new and the cuckolded husband is a long-term friend, I'd find a way to let him know. If my best friends came to me to let me know my wife was being unfaithful, I'd have to take it into consideration, just because we've been friends for decades.</p><p></p><p>--fje</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="HeapThaumaturgist, post: 2765103, member: 12332"] Huh. I dunno why I see so much of this kind of stuff in the gamer subculture. Did people not get enough hot hot lovin' in highschool or something? At any rate, it's your bag. They made it your situation when they decided to start carrying things out at your place. They might have never gotten into it if the people around them didn't sit idle, in fact. Me. I'd want to be told about it. For myself, the first person I'd go to is the "Cheater" guy. I guess that's part of my "Guy Code" upbringing. Dudes don't let dudes do dudes' girls, etc. I'd tell him that it wasn't cool, that you don't do that sort of thing to one of the bros, and that at the very least he couldn't carry things on like that in your house. EDIT: If it feels like a "Gamer Group Issue", then I guess you could take it up with them. If it's a long-term friends issue, I'd take it up with the fellow first. If you've been friends with her and her husband longer, take it up with her first. And if the "guy" and the "girl" are new and the cuckolded husband is a long-term friend, I'd find a way to let him know. If my best friends came to me to let me know my wife was being unfaithful, I'd have to take it into consideration, just because we've been friends for decades. --fje [/QUOTE]
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