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My wife won't let me play D&D.
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<blockquote data-quote="Buttercup" data-source="post: 402877" data-attributes="member: 990"><p>With all due respect, how long have you been married? Emotions don't necessarily have anything to do with logic, and backing your spouse into a corner literally or figuratively seems guaranteed to backfire. </p><p></p><p>Said another way, if someone is upset, logic probably doesn't enter into it, and belittling that person's feelings by making them feel silly is a big step on the road to divorce court if it happens over and over again.</p><p></p><p>I'm basing these statements on 13 years of marriage. (14 in December) Be very careful about how you behave when you fight. You cannot take back words you shouldn't have spoken, and each time you utter something belittling, a tiny piece of your spouse's love for you dies forever. I learned this in a previous relationship, and so my husband & I have always taken care to be kind and fair, even when we are so angry we want to strangle each other. It isn't always easy, but really, if your marriage isn't worth curbing your tongue for, what in this world is?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Buttercup, post: 402877, member: 990"] With all due respect, how long have you been married? Emotions don't necessarily have anything to do with logic, and backing your spouse into a corner literally or figuratively seems guaranteed to backfire. Said another way, if someone is upset, logic probably doesn't enter into it, and belittling that person's feelings by making them feel silly is a big step on the road to divorce court if it happens over and over again. I'm basing these statements on 13 years of marriage. (14 in December) Be very careful about how you behave when you fight. You cannot take back words you shouldn't have spoken, and each time you utter something belittling, a tiny piece of your spouse's love for you dies forever. I learned this in a previous relationship, and so my husband & I have always taken care to be kind and fair, even when we are so angry we want to strangle each other. It isn't always easy, but really, if your marriage isn't worth curbing your tongue for, what in this world is? [/QUOTE]
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