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<blockquote data-quote="pawned79" data-source="post: 524866" data-attributes="member: 9284"><p>Hello everyone,</p><p></p><p> I’ve been playing D&D for only a few years now. Really only have experience with 3rd</p><p>edition. A friend of mine frequently posts on your board here. He is a very experienced</p><p>player and DM, and he told me to ask all of you for advice.</p><p></p><p> We started a game a few months ago. It is a low level/power campaign set in a Dark Sun</p><p>style desert scenario. When we planned to start playing, it was agreed that this game</p><p>would be my first DMing experience, because my friend really wanted to play instead of</p><p>DM. He would DM half the time, and I would DM half the time, and we would work up</p><p>to me going full time. Our gaming group consists of him, his girlfriend, a friend of ours,</p><p>and myself. I’ll refer to them by their character names, Neebo, Luula, Garac, and myself</p><p>Balak.</p><p></p><p> The problem that I’m having is a DMing problem. Let me give a brief description of</p><p>how each player is like. Neebo is a very fine player and a wonderful DM. He will with no</p><p>doubt read the post that I am writing here. Unfortunately, the guy is so charismatic, that</p><p>when a problem comes up, and he offers advice, it always sounds really good. I’m not</p><p>saying it isn’t good advice. Luula is something. She’s a great player, but if you give her</p><p>an inch.... Sometimes she has problems with extremes. If her stat in something is 9 or 11,</p><p>she might play a total extreme high or low of that stat, when it isn’t called for. Also, she</p><p>has a problem with looking at papers she shouldn’t be looking at, “Oh my god! He’s level</p><p>five!” she shouts as a peaked at the NPC sheet of the captain of the guard that her level</p><p>two character has just gotten into a fight with. Garac is very experienced with first edition</p><p>and he’s done his homework when it comes to third edition. The guy really thinks outside</p><p>of the box sometimes. The second he sat down at the table, he brought up logical points</p><p>that none of us at the table had thought about. Such as food and water for our mounts in</p><p>the desert; being that food and water is one of those things that we are forced to keep</p><p>track of in the world we are in. So, everyone is a fine person, and a fine player, and when</p><p>they all site on the opposite side of the DM screen from me, it really does look</p><p>intimidating.</p><p></p><p> While I’ve been on the DM side of the table, some things have happened that have</p><p>concerned me. Keep in mind that all these characters are desert dwelling people, born,</p><p>live and probably die as people of the desert. Three of the characters are from a rural</p><p>village; Luula is a tom-boy hunter, Balak is a god fearing young man, and Garac is an</p><p>ex-trouble-maker. Neebo is a scrawny desert bandit who stole from the party, was beaten</p><p>by the party, and was used by the party. Now, due to circumstance, he’s still around.</p><p></p><p> The first thing that has started that makes me worried is that everyone now has picked</p><p>up levels in rouge, which in itself isn’t bad. It seems that many have dumped some</p><p>valuable skill points into roguish things like pickpocket, which in itself isn’t bad. The</p><p>problem is though is that ever since reaching level and gaining the rouge levels, I have</p><p>received a lot more note passing about little things. People asking me questions about</p><p>how difficult it would be to pick the pocket of their party member right now or take</p><p>something off their mount when they aren’t looking. Poison darts are being made by one</p><p>character, which in itself isn’t bad, but honestly, I don’t think that it is of any use in the</p><p>scenario unless you are planning to assassinate someone. Now, nothing has flat-out</p><p>happened YET! But I want to take some preventative measures before they do. The other</p><p>thing that really got to me was the characters finally got to the oasis that they were going</p><p>to. Unfortunately, it was covered in dense foliage that contained poisonous vines and a</p><p>lair of a dozen or so basketball-sized beetles guarding their territory at the waterfront. It</p><p>seemed like a very nice little set up to have a group of level twos against many many</p><p>half-level bugs. The poisonous vines were added because Neebo asked what type of</p><p>plants are there and pointed me to a random roll chart he had for plants. Well, they did</p><p>solve the conflict. They burned down the entire oasis. :-( Which, I guess, solved the</p><p>problem, but seemed VERY uncharacteristic of the characters and their livelihood.</p><p></p><p> When Neebo DMs these little things don’t come to a head or I don’t notice them, and</p><p>I’ve been kinda feeling that whenever I DM things go wrong, and I’m just glad that I</p><p>know he’s DMing next time and he can fix it. Sometimes I even think that the players</p><p>play differently with him as a DM and with me as a DM. Anyway, what should I do?</p><p>Should I do anything? Do I just need practice? Am I just being paranoid? What’s up? I</p><p>thank you ahead of time for any comments, questions, criticism you will have. Thank</p><p>you.</p><p></p><p>Patrick (Balak)</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="pawned79, post: 524866, member: 9284"] Hello everyone, I’ve been playing D&D for only a few years now. Really only have experience with 3rd edition. A friend of mine frequently posts on your board here. He is a very experienced player and DM, and he told me to ask all of you for advice. We started a game a few months ago. It is a low level/power campaign set in a Dark Sun style desert scenario. When we planned to start playing, it was agreed that this game would be my first DMing experience, because my friend really wanted to play instead of DM. He would DM half the time, and I would DM half the time, and we would work up to me going full time. Our gaming group consists of him, his girlfriend, a friend of ours, and myself. I’ll refer to them by their character names, Neebo, Luula, Garac, and myself Balak. The problem that I’m having is a DMing problem. Let me give a brief description of how each player is like. Neebo is a very fine player and a wonderful DM. He will with no doubt read the post that I am writing here. Unfortunately, the guy is so charismatic, that when a problem comes up, and he offers advice, it always sounds really good. I’m not saying it isn’t good advice. Luula is something. She’s a great player, but if you give her an inch.... Sometimes she has problems with extremes. If her stat in something is 9 or 11, she might play a total extreme high or low of that stat, when it isn’t called for. Also, she has a problem with looking at papers she shouldn’t be looking at, “Oh my god! He’s level five!” she shouts as a peaked at the NPC sheet of the captain of the guard that her level two character has just gotten into a fight with. Garac is very experienced with first edition and he’s done his homework when it comes to third edition. The guy really thinks outside of the box sometimes. The second he sat down at the table, he brought up logical points that none of us at the table had thought about. Such as food and water for our mounts in the desert; being that food and water is one of those things that we are forced to keep track of in the world we are in. So, everyone is a fine person, and a fine player, and when they all site on the opposite side of the DM screen from me, it really does look intimidating. While I’ve been on the DM side of the table, some things have happened that have concerned me. Keep in mind that all these characters are desert dwelling people, born, live and probably die as people of the desert. Three of the characters are from a rural village; Luula is a tom-boy hunter, Balak is a god fearing young man, and Garac is an ex-trouble-maker. Neebo is a scrawny desert bandit who stole from the party, was beaten by the party, and was used by the party. Now, due to circumstance, he’s still around. The first thing that has started that makes me worried is that everyone now has picked up levels in rouge, which in itself isn’t bad. It seems that many have dumped some valuable skill points into roguish things like pickpocket, which in itself isn’t bad. The problem is though is that ever since reaching level and gaining the rouge levels, I have received a lot more note passing about little things. People asking me questions about how difficult it would be to pick the pocket of their party member right now or take something off their mount when they aren’t looking. Poison darts are being made by one character, which in itself isn’t bad, but honestly, I don’t think that it is of any use in the scenario unless you are planning to assassinate someone. Now, nothing has flat-out happened YET! But I want to take some preventative measures before they do. The other thing that really got to me was the characters finally got to the oasis that they were going to. Unfortunately, it was covered in dense foliage that contained poisonous vines and a lair of a dozen or so basketball-sized beetles guarding their territory at the waterfront. It seemed like a very nice little set up to have a group of level twos against many many half-level bugs. The poisonous vines were added because Neebo asked what type of plants are there and pointed me to a random roll chart he had for plants. Well, they did solve the conflict. They burned down the entire oasis. :-( Which, I guess, solved the problem, but seemed VERY uncharacteristic of the characters and their livelihood. When Neebo DMs these little things don’t come to a head or I don’t notice them, and I’ve been kinda feeling that whenever I DM things go wrong, and I’m just glad that I know he’s DMing next time and he can fix it. Sometimes I even think that the players play differently with him as a DM and with me as a DM. Anyway, what should I do? Should I do anything? Do I just need practice? Am I just being paranoid? What’s up? I thank you ahead of time for any comments, questions, criticism you will have. Thank you. Patrick (Balak) [/QUOTE]
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