Solution : Be proactive do not just passively complain.
I don't understand this - eg who is "he" the "original author"?I was not attempting to write a sensitive piece I was simply pointing out the over looked facts that the "overly sensitive out pourings" of the original author seemed to have not covered in their so heart felt dismissal of all those other folks. If he had not wanted a response he most likely would not have personally and condescendingly pointed me to it as the possible post the original individual had told me to go look at -- a fact that he could not say was even true making the condescending nature of his post that much worse which kind of explains why he so easily dismissed those others. Further no one seems to even care that the overly sensitive post was actually very insensitive as well -- must have simply had better window dressing.
But anyway, your proposal seems to be that the solution to exclusion from popular culture is to create one's own popular culture. But a well-known alternative to what you propose is to agitate for change to the existing culture. Which is what is going on in the article (and some of the blogs that it references).
(The fact that you characterise agitation as passive complaint is another point against your post.)