Hussar
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Quite a bit actually, helps. What you assume is that we dont have-odd schedules, rural or slower comminties or other such items.
What you dont know is, I happened to live, as I call it, a gaming dead zone. There is NOTHING around me. Nearest game store? about an hour in whatever direction, maybe 45 minutes(so thats, for you Hussar, 30-60 miles away). Howeevr both stores such monkey behinds and have done nothing for me, gaming wise for RPG's.
Online gets you people and places. I am pretty much, judging by the gamer meet up, maybe one of two for the area. I'd have to travel around anyway.
As for more then once a week? Your SOL. We're adults, time is limited. Its not college or HS anymore. Jobs, house, spouse, kids eat up alot of time. Once a week, or 2-4 a month work well for me as an adult.
So in the end? Online is ok, but will never ever take away from face to face. BTDT online gaming. Its ok in a pinch, but doesnt take the place of face to face.
Is it easy to get a group together? No but I am in a dead zone, and fit your critiera. You have to look hard and make it work, and yeah I travel 45 minutes for my game- 30+ miles each way. But its an awesome game, so I'd travel double that one for this game easy.
Games worth having take work.
Different strokes. I'll stand my online games up against anyone's tabletop game any day of the week.
And, for quite some time, I got to play twice a week, despite my insane schedule. I still play Tuesday mornings 9 to noon after I get the kids off to school.
BTW, BTDT? Not familiar with that acronym. What does that mean.