Tovec
Explorer
I was just putting forward what I thought was a well done example. I also found it important to note this is a Male Player describing a Female PC. I think it shows a maturity among the player base for something more than overt sexuality. The PC's in my game think of themselves as ass-kicking adventurers first and Females second, and I think that's a good way to look at it.
You are lucky your male player even remembers they are playing a female character. This issue happens from time to time in our games.
I think that MOST people, players, DMs, fans, artists who do DnD try to keep it discrete. I think that a few bad apples ruin the bunch, as we end up seeing pictures of female fantasy characters with chainmail bikinis or skulls (or shells) covering their naughty bits. But I think that most people who care and who are trying to draw THEIR character, as opposed to A character will be mature about it.