prosfilaes
Adventurer
You are reaching no one is saying players who vote with their feet are bad people.
Then you are reading the sentence I quoted differently from me.
Why do people take things to the extreme there is a difference between trying to build a gaming world that is not the same as every other freaking world out there and being over protective off the world.
Right, because banning exactly the races in 5E that weren't in 1E is making a world that's not the same as every other world out there. If more of these arguments were about people not allowing dwarves instead of people not allowing ifrit or dragonborn, I'd be more convinced that they were building a gaming world that is not the same as every other freaking world out there.
Your comment of I will talk to the other players and take them with me almost sounds like blackmail the my way or the highway that you say you dislike so much.
How does it sound like blackmail? Why shouldn't I convince my friends who play with me at my house on Tuesday nights to play a game that I would enjoy? I'm not taking them with me; we're just deciding who should be the DM.
I would not want to play with a group of players who would force me to deal with an unreasonable player who was ruining my fun at the table to the point that I would want them to leave.
Great, go ahead and abandon what you've been doing on Tuesday nights for a decade, because it's more important to you to control the game then work out a solution with your players. Some groups are friends first and DM and players second. Sometimes players leaving is not a solution, and sometimes a DM would find that the player staying was not to their advantage.
No one here is advocating for unreasonable rules and draconian DMs.
You don't believe you're being unreasonable. I'm shocked.