**Shrugs** To each their own.
As a personal suggestion, I'd say make sure to ask the persons said-characters are/were involved with before posting here then, if you're naming them. I'm sure many players have no real inclination to have their character's private lives broadcast, for the above reasons.
But yeah. I'm sure everyone wanted it to be family, friends, children, and romances as well, but chances are it'll degrade into romances.
As Jard said, this is just going to turn into a gossip thread.. and if it's for 'reference' for newbies, how are those same newbies supposed to know all this...? IC knowledge collected in an OOC manner for new players results in one of two things:
Bragging Rights
Or
Metagaming.