One of my friends is more comfortable talking about being gay than being a gamer.
I was kinda used to gay gamers keeping quiet about it, at least at the game table, so I was a bit surprised when I joined the games club I'm in now and first session, the GM proclaims: "I'm gay! Is your PC gay? Maybe they have a disability? You can get extra points*!" And it subsequently turns out a very high proportion of the GMs (half?) and players are gay or lesbian, and happy to talk about it. Maybe it's a generational thing, I'm 36 and they're mostly early to mid '20s.
*This was 3.5 D&D too, so playing a hunchbacked lesbian doesn't normally get you extra abilities, per the RAW. He also wanted to know what ethnic minority the PC was - luckily although Thongar the Barbarian was a heterosexual male, I'd already decided he was from an Amerinidian type race, so that was ok.