Apples and oranges. Hitting a specific target with an arrow is a HECK of a lot different than hitting a specific point with a grenade such that you can tell that target X is exactly this far away and target Y is exactly that far away from the point where you are throwing a grenade.
And, yes, I was referring to the 4e rules (and 3e as well) where you couldn't realign the grid. As was explained earlier, you counted from a central point, so, you actually couldn't make diagonal squares.
Now, if you could throw a ball the size of the 3 point line, at an exact point in a group of people so that you could deliberately hit some people and not others, then you'd have a point. Given that in basketball, you are throwing at a clearly defined point (complete with square on the backboard to help aiming and lines on the floor to aid as well), I'm not sure that it's really a viable comparison to throwing a grenade in a group of people so specifically.