Lanefan
Victoria Rules
**Unhands pastry by throwing it at orc's face in an attempt to temporarily blind it while I flee**“*grrrrrrr* You there! Know that I am Kursk Gorespear of the Pieguard Tribe. Unhand that pastry...or I will unhand you!”
**Unhands pastry by throwing it at orc's face in an attempt to temporarily blind it while I flee**“*grrrrrrr* You there! Know that I am Kursk Gorespear of the Pieguard Tribe. Unhand that pastry...or I will unhand you!”
I'm not questioning your character or your good faith. I do think that there is a lot of value into looking inward and asking why we question things.
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So, the argument is that it was cool language, so we should forgive the fact that it would add to the unfortunate sexual objectifying of women that thousands of 12 years olds were exposed to?
And how about the women well over 12, for whom that was just one more element of objectification that kept them out of an awesome hobby? For whom it added to the cultural bias of gamers against women? You want to tell them "You aren't 12, so all the talk of prostitutes in the game is something you should ignore, 'cause the language is neat-o!"
'Cause Gygax couldn't have put his cool language into *something else*?
I don't think everything needs to be boiled down to the suitability of a 12 year old - whether boy or girl.
When my sister was 12 she was reading those 'teen' magazines - with vastly more explicit sexual content than even the most lurid of pulps, never mind the 1e DMG!
And, there's a strong argument that, historically, those have also been damaging to our culture's approach to women. "My 12 year old read worse stuff," doesn't actually say that any of it is okay! The presence of something worse does not justify the presence of something that isn't good.
I mean, would you say... "There's a bowl of cyanide. Since that is on the table, it is okay for me to eat this salad contaminated with E. coli!" Probably not.
I agree with this. In my case it's not HPL, who I find has some interesting ideas but whose writing I find almost unreadable.In the end, you have to make peace with certain things. I remain a huge H.P. Lovecraft fan,* and I always will be.
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But I start by listening and acknowledging the issues (whether its in the text, with the author, or both)
Or we can recognize that adult material (in this case prostitution) is something that might realistically appear in a fantasy town, that a few words of description can substantially change the nature of the character encountered, and humor can target adults even in works a 12 year old might read. Aside from the use of description, it’s not like the random harlot table runs throughout the book like slavery and southern apologetics do in Gone with the Wind
I think it's not just comfort of dads. There are things to be said about teen magazines (is it still Dolly?), but they're different from the harlot table.When my sister was 12 she was reading those 'teen' magazines - with vastly more explicit sexual content than even the most lurid of pulps, never mind the 1e DMG! I think that what we dads are comfy with is more the issue.
For me it's not so much about harm - although internatlisation of certain self-conceptions is a real thing - but about what it suggests about the work and those who enjoy/expound it. (Which I guess is what you are calling embarrassment.)I'm sure they are worse. I just doubt the harlot table will do any harm, other than embarrass her dad.
I feel like you are putting words in my mouth. I am saying people disagree on what tropes are racist or colonialist, and I am wary of where that bar is being set. Further I think some of what people are identifying as colonialist or racist is only so under a deep microscope. I think those kinds of tropes are very different from more pronounced and clear examples of racism. It is like when critics used to call all kinds of movies fascist (just because the hero used a gun or something). To me it feels like we can lose tropes that are not really a problem and in the process diminish the power of important words like Racism.