Campbell
Relaxed Intensity
That's the way it goes, it seems. Someone makes a broad generalization about the game, which somehow upsets someone enough to make broad generalizations about the person making the broad generalization, and down the toilet we all go. I don't know why it happens so much more often with 4th Edition than any of the other editions, or how it got to be so extremely polarizing. But here we are.
"I think that 4th Edition was..."
"OH YEAH? Well people who think that are..."
I bet if we could stick to the first line of thought and avoid the second, we could have some really cool discussions.
From my perspective it way always shame that we could never do deep dives of the game outside of the context of it being an edition of Dungeons and Dragons. Most of the nasty fights in my experience come from a sense that someone is questioning the legitimacy of the game - it's right to exist. There was a sense I personally got at that time that it would be better if it was never published. That if fans of game never received something they loved so much.
In general that questioning the legitimacy of something is where most of the nasty fights in our hobby come up. It happens with indie games. It happened with the World of Darkness. There's even an element of that in some of the discussions around here when it came to Pathfinder Second Edition. I see it in the OSR community when it comes to more experimental stuff.
In general I think embracing the diversity in the hobby helps a good deal to avoiding conflicts getting out of hand.