Hey, IamTheTest, I'll try to answer your questions and hopefully I'll be helpful!
IamTheTest said:
1. Am I gonna be looked at funny because Im there with a couple of 2x ladies? (they are a little nervous about that)
Last year was my first year, but based on what I saw then I don't think you'll be looked at funny for anything. There were stormtroopers, there were women in chainmail bikinis, there was even one woman who had a leash on being lead by her male companion!
2. We are basically new to D&D in general so we arent sure what to expect, what should we do?
From my experience the RPG-ing was rather hit and miss so it's sort of hard to say what to expect. I signed up for 4 DnD/D20 games last year and in two of them the DM didn't show and the game was cancelled. One other was DM'ed by, I believe, Robert Schwalb who's written some for Green Ronin and it was a blast; just a great time. The other game was supposed to be Spycraft but we just sat around talking and the DM would say what happens, we didn't roll any dice or use any of the rules.
So I guess what I'm saying is to roll with the punches and make the most out of the game. Hopefully you'll get a good one, or at least some good people. Take your dice and your PHB and a good attitude and you'll be all set.
The game slots are normally 4 hours so the adventures are generally short and focused. They also generally hand out pre-generated characters.
3. What is the best day to go if we can only pick one?
I'm not sure what the best day is, but I would avoid Sunday as your only day. The crowds really start to thin out on Sundays. All the other days seemed to be really hoppin', but Friday and Saturday are probably the best.