AtomicPope
Hero
Are you sure you're not in my gaming group?Wow. You haven't been at our table. We might even be worse when the women show up.
Of course, all the womenfolk at our tables (usually 2-3, to the 5-6 guys) are wives/girlfriends, and we're also all social beyond gaming (dinners, holidays, movies, board games, shopping, etc). Also, most of us are mid-to-late 30s and fairly stable, so that might be part of it.
FWIW, our game sessions are much more interesting because of the mixed group (different perspectives, different strengths, different strategies). I also think it helps that we have multiple women, not just one.
This describes my 3e group dynamic.
OP - if you're gaming with women that get offended easily then just drop them from your group. We had to drop a guy who didn't like WoD because it offended his religious sensibility. No big deal. Not everyone gets along. If your hetero life-mates can't deal with women gaming then they need to grow up. Hiding them from women only amplifies their social ineptitudes when the next female gamer arrives.
I suggest you take them to a strip club and let them get it out of their system. After seeming professional tail a gamer girl won't be so impressive. That is, if they're old enough to go to a strip club