Because it is the critical point. It simply does work for you or me to insist that doing this or not doing that is binding on everyone else.El Mahdi said:First of all, it is not breaking the rules of the game, if the rules of the game says it's okay for a DM to do just that. Why do you insist on pressing this point?
What works is for people to agree upon the rules of whatever game they wish to play.
I happen to find that it works a lot better for me and my friends to keep it above board.
"What's the difference" tends to be a rhetorical question, and the character of the follow-up rhetoric can be telling. I treated it as a genuine question, and gave my answer. It is not an answer for you to try to "prove wrong", but hypocrisy rushes in where common sense dare not tread.
Because that is how you choose to see it.Conversely, why does it seem that you are so intent on proving that fudging is wrong?
Did you even bother to read that? "Other" than what? That is the method that I employ. It is also, as a plain matter of fact "misleading" and "dishonest". Not surprisingly, I consider it not wrong.And see, this is why your position is coming across as The One True Way...calling others approaches to this (fudging) as being misleading, dishonest
So, Umbran tries an Appeal to Authority ... then you take my rejection of that OTW gambit as indicating some need for you to "lecture" me with my own point ... and you wonder at what you hear in your echo chamber?
You can stop telling me that I believe this or that and instead ask me and listen to what I say.
I am saying now what I have said repeatedly: Your methods suit the game you want to play. My methods suit the game I want to play. The means are different because the ends are different.