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I think I shall stop lurking and post..
I highly recommend seeing how serious she was about this. A passing comment on the way to the mall may be nothing to worry about, but if it's more than that be careful! I am one of those ladies who married super young, and the ex-husband was very jealous of any time I spent not focused on him. I wound up with no friends, no hobbies, no life! I've been out of that mess for a few years now, the current boyfriend and I game together twice a week with different groups (he dm's one, I dm the other) and I am a thousand times happier! Not to be all doom and gloom, it may not be a huge thing. But it's definitely a conversation you should have. Gamers and non-gamers can live happily ever after, but definitely make sure you reach some kind of understanding pre-marriage!
I highly recommend seeing how serious she was about this. A passing comment on the way to the mall may be nothing to worry about, but if it's more than that be careful! I am one of those ladies who married super young, and the ex-husband was very jealous of any time I spent not focused on him. I wound up with no friends, no hobbies, no life! I've been out of that mess for a few years now, the current boyfriend and I game together twice a week with different groups (he dm's one, I dm the other) and I am a thousand times happier! Not to be all doom and gloom, it may not be a huge thing. But it's definitely a conversation you should have. Gamers and non-gamers can live happily ever after, but definitely make sure you reach some kind of understanding pre-marriage!