Representation and authenticity is more important than trying to simulate a culture 1:1, which is not something I've ever seen happen. Nor should some historical things be expected; it's one thing to say, well these people over here in this fantasy gaming setting are misogynist because that's part of the palette of the real world inspiration for this medieval fantasy, but another to say, "well people in medieval times were misogynists, so there should be Good deities who promote misogyny because it was authentic to the time period". That would just be absurd to try and do unless it was like, a campaign about restructuring gender roles and expectations, which is not really something that the elf combat game is suited for.