Storm Raven
First Post
Eternalknight said:Well, the spirit of Christmas is certainly alive and well within you. Maybe, instead of demanding gifts, just tell them to get you nothing; if I got a demand like what you made, you'd be very lucky to get anything from me at all.
I would prefer that to your getting me stuff I don't want. If you aren't going to consider my desires when you spend money on a gift for me, then don't bother doing it.
Let's put the shoe on the other foot for a moment. If you got an email from someone telling you that, what would you think?
I would get them what they want. Of course, I don't have to be hit with a ton of bricks to do that, I take hints and suggestions. I look for them actually - I usually ask people I am getting gifts for "what do you want", and then get them that.
It's certainly obvious that money is no issue;
No, it is not that money is no issue. In this case, money is not an issue, because the amount my parents are willing to spend on a gift is in line with what I would want. You may note that my list includes a wide array of gift options, at a variety of proice points. I expect some people will want to spend less than $20 on a gift, there are options for that.
I'm guessing it was no issue when you were a child either;
No, quite the opposite. The best Christmas gift I ever got as a child was a second-hand bicycle that someone was going to throw out, but that my father restored and gave me. Like most of my gifts, it cost virtually nothing, because we were poor. But I wanted a bicycle, and my father knew it, so it was a great gift.
in fact, I'd hazard a guess that you were spoiled as a child (that is not an attack on you, by the way; if you were spoiled, that is not your fault). I guess, with our different background (assuming I am right), we are going to just have to disagree on this issue.
Your assumption is erroneous. My position stems from the fact that we had little money when I was a child. If you are going to spend money buying me something, buy me something I want. Don't waste your time or money on crap I don't want. It just wastes your cash and annoys me. Just get me nothing instead.