Thanks, I had seen that interview when it first aired, and then forgotten about it. Sofia is hilarious the way she talks about her husband's hobby (without being demeaning or dismissive in any way). It's clear that it's not her thing and she doesn't quite get it, but doesn't view it as weird or childish in any way. Not much different than being a Steelers fan and wearing Steelers gear outside of a football game . . . .
Also a good reminder that Joe's home game's current line-up may be a "sausage fest" (man, I hate that term) . . . but he talks about how the make-up of his regular group has fluctuated over the years (as do most groups) and he's also talked about hosting other side-games and one-shots . . . . we only know who's playing now, and a few name-drops of some folks who've played in Joe's "dungeon" in the past. A table full of dudes now doesn't mean dudes-only all the time.
Ultimately, not that it matters. Who Joe invites over to play in his home game is his business, not ours (although, obviously, we're interested). If Joe actually copped to never allowing a woman to enter his sacred man-cave . . . well, that wouldn't impress me, but it wouldn't overly bother me either.
The live-stream games he's been a part of have been fairly diverse with all sorts of folks playing, although I don't think he was the DM for any of them. I'm more interested in diversity in live-stream games, as they blend the personal hobby with public entertainment.