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Sunseeker
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For those who don't think male players do a good job accurately portraying female characters: How, specifically, do you distinguish a well-portrayed female character from a poorly-portrayed one?
I just wanted to remark on this, I've seen a number of male DMs who have said "I play women(PC or NPC) badly", therefore I don't allow others to do it. I find it strange to see their own failing extrapolated into: "i'm a man, and I can't play women, therefore anyone who's a man also is incapable of playing women." I see some people trying to defend it with biology, a fools errand, and others try to defend it with IRL society.
If we've already agreed that M or F is mostly an aesthetic choice, and that most fantasy settings are egalitarian enough to mean your character isn't going to run into trouble for being one sex or the other, and a fighter is a fighter is a fighter, then I really suggest some introspection.
Why does a man playing a woman offend you more than a man playing a kobold? Assuming of course, they're not trying to make a vampire-hooker-stripper-lesbian-ninja type woman.