It's a barely intelligent swarmy monster, so it won't be playing tactically at all. My suggestion is to slather a pack mule, or horse (could be summoned) in barbeque sauce and run like heck the other way. If your DM persists, remind him that frankly, a CR12 swarm with an SR22, Ref +22, and evasion is fairly stinky cheese for a group of CR10 heroes. It's not impossible, but unless you've got the ability to deal with a very specific set of hindrances, it could easily become a TPK.
Failing that, Swarmguard Armor from Dungeonscape may take some of the bite out, as will being warforged. Otherwise, ask him what he would've done, stroke his ego to see if he actually had a genius combination of tactics that were feasible, given the resources of the group. Or, just to see if he's a sociopathic dink.