A high level campaign that I DM'd for about two years has been on hiatius since my son was born six months ago. We have resumed other campaigns and my players are anxious to restart this one as well. I have been putting them off because there is a situation with a player that I find intolerable, but I don't know how to get around it.
She is the wife of one of the other players and only games for socialization. She has not bothered to learn the rules and never has any idea what her characters can do, but will argue with anyone who tries to help her (usually her husband, which is awkward for everyone else). She is also constantly chattering about out of game things, mostly to my wife who then misses out on important details. She is the type of person who tends to monopolize any conversation she is near and is always right.
She now wants to play a spellcaster in my now epic level campaign. I don't feel that we can exclude her because her husband is a good friend and really enjoys gaming. He realizes this is a problem and has tried to talk with her about it. We have tried to drop hints during the game that we need to get back on task and have outright ignored her, but nothing seems to help. No one really wants to hurt her feelings, but her constant chatter and ignorance of the game system detract from everyone's experience.
Any suggestions?
She is the wife of one of the other players and only games for socialization. She has not bothered to learn the rules and never has any idea what her characters can do, but will argue with anyone who tries to help her (usually her husband, which is awkward for everyone else). She is also constantly chattering about out of game things, mostly to my wife who then misses out on important details. She is the type of person who tends to monopolize any conversation she is near and is always right.
She now wants to play a spellcaster in my now epic level campaign. I don't feel that we can exclude her because her husband is a good friend and really enjoys gaming. He realizes this is a problem and has tried to talk with her about it. We have tried to drop hints during the game that we need to get back on task and have outright ignored her, but nothing seems to help. No one really wants to hurt her feelings, but her constant chatter and ignorance of the game system detract from everyone's experience.
Any suggestions?