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If you dress as Tsoylani, you have a few options due to your Realms status (so no, not topless and just a kilt). Based on your choice, the seamstresses will take care of the honorifics. They have been chosen to ensure your intentions are appropriately met in your dress.
If you want to show off as upper class nobilty: Kilt, shoes, belt, over-tunic with ceremonial embroidery declaring house and position, collar and headdress.
Subaltern Officer in the Military: Ceremonial uniform armor with off-duty collar, headdress and gem-encrusted scabbards and weaponry.
Mages and Priests (and witches): Ceremonial vestments and expensive robes with arcane/divine runes and letterings of silver and golden thread.
Kilts are normally for men, though women can wear those or skirts. Women also have the option to wear bodices instead of sleeveless vests, kirtles instead of tunics.
That doesn't include the appropriate bracelets, necklaces, rings, and looped jewelry and pins placed in the hair. Women place more decorations in their hair, while Tsoylani men carry some but often cover most of their head with ceremonial hats in various styles. Precious stones include obsidian, coral, alexandrite, jadeite, opals, pearls, topaz, turquoise and shells.
