fuindordm said:So that way you can end up with black holes that trap all particles except gravitons.
That doesn't work - if the gravitons travel in those other dimensions, gravity does. And that's what'd keeping things from escaping. There is no "back door" out of a black hole into our normal space.
There's a simpler answer - the statement "nothing can escape a black hole" is true, but insufficiently detailed to give us what we need. In full, the statement is "nothing can escape from within the event horizon of a black hole.
In effect, all you need is that the gravitons be emitted from the outside of the surface, rather than from the interior, and all is well.