OK, short backstory.
Two people (a married couple) left my group for a year's time, but recently returned to the city I live. Meanwhile, I recruited another player (a friend of player A). We switched to 4th edition, a game the married couple had no intentions of playing.
Just before the couple returned, I told player A that they were returning. He thought they would be gone permanently and told me he wouldn't play with them (contrasting play styles and personalities and all that). Now, I was in a pickle, as I think player A is an awesome player who brings a lot to the games. I feel the same way about the woman in the couple (who also happens to be my cousin). But as long as we played 4th edition, I didn't have to choose..
My plan was to try and start up a campaign with the returned couple as well, bring in a few new players while playing with the other group too. If I gave the GM reins to someone else in at least one campaign, it could work - I thought. But now we've decided to play something else than 4th edition, and the returned couple have said they're interested.
I don't know how to avoid explicitly saying that player A won't play with you guys, sorry. I don't want to hurt anyone or step on anyone's toes, and I really want to play with both. Am I a coward for not telling the truth right upfront?
Two people (a married couple) left my group for a year's time, but recently returned to the city I live. Meanwhile, I recruited another player (a friend of player A). We switched to 4th edition, a game the married couple had no intentions of playing.
Just before the couple returned, I told player A that they were returning. He thought they would be gone permanently and told me he wouldn't play with them (contrasting play styles and personalities and all that). Now, I was in a pickle, as I think player A is an awesome player who brings a lot to the games. I feel the same way about the woman in the couple (who also happens to be my cousin). But as long as we played 4th edition, I didn't have to choose..
My plan was to try and start up a campaign with the returned couple as well, bring in a few new players while playing with the other group too. If I gave the GM reins to someone else in at least one campaign, it could work - I thought. But now we've decided to play something else than 4th edition, and the returned couple have said they're interested.
I don't know how to avoid explicitly saying that player A won't play with you guys, sorry. I don't want to hurt anyone or step on anyone's toes, and I really want to play with both. Am I a coward for not telling the truth right upfront?