Dog Moon
Adventurer
And from a purely ugh point of view --- Stirges --- huge mothering mosquitos -- 'nuff said.
My group fears things I homebrew when I DM. I've messed with Stirges a little bit and if I ever put another stirge in my group, the players will flee, especially if they're high level. At low levels, they know I can't do too much, but at higher levels, they fear the concoctions I will come up with to make Stirges a challenge.
Multiheaded Cryo Stirges. Think about it. Twice the blood drain. And they can breathe cold damage at you.
Ghoul Stirges. They paralyze you and then drink your blood.
Enlarged Stirge of Legend. Stirges are NOT supposed to be bigger than you. And they can drink a lot more blood at a quicker rate than normal size stirges.
As a player, the thing I fear most is any creature or character able to cast Mordenkainen's Disjunction. Secondly, groups of creatures that have save or die/dominate/suck effects, such as the aforementioned beholders and illithids.