Two player characters. 8th level. Been played for a year or so. Paladin is at -10 hp (dead at -14). Ranger (favored enemy orcs) is at nearly full hit points and faced off against an enemy cleric. Both separated from the rest of the party. The cleric's ally, a severely injured half-orc blackguard and old enemy of the party, picks up the paladin's body and says, "Back off or the paladin gets it." The ranger can't tell if the paladin is alive or dead, so attacks the cleric, sentencing the paladin character to certain death, and indeed, the blackguard kills the paladin.
What do you think? Am I wrong to be a bit annoyed at my buddy who plays the ranger. I mean, its just a game, but it also takes some of the fun out of the game when a character is killed by another player's actions versus the DMs actions. We even had a discussion, "Look you have no idea if he's alive or dead, and you're going to basically sentence him to death by attacking the cleric?" "Yeah, he responded. I don't know if he's alive." "But there's a very good possibility that he is alive." "But I'm not sure, so I'm attacking."
What do you think? Am I wrong to be a bit annoyed at my buddy who plays the ranger. I mean, its just a game, but it also takes some of the fun out of the game when a character is killed by another player's actions versus the DMs actions. We even had a discussion, "Look you have no idea if he's alive or dead, and you're going to basically sentence him to death by attacking the cleric?" "Yeah, he responded. I don't know if he's alive." "But there's a very good possibility that he is alive." "But I'm not sure, so I'm attacking."