Fifth Element
Legend
To be fair, there is at least one legitimate concern: if someone builds a new shiny house, and none of your friends want to come over and play at your house anymore; they want to party at the new house. Now, I don't think it's fair to blame the house builder for this, and if they're your friends then the house you party at shouldn't really matter.No, it's like you already own a house, and somebody's selling other houses you don't care for. It doesn't affect you, the owner of a perfectly serviceable house, but when you talk to people who like those houses and people who are selling them, it annoys you that they boost them, or say bad things about your house. That's the difference between play and community discussion.
If you normally party with people you would otherwise not spend any time with (ie, not friends), then you're pretty much stuck. Your best bet is to find some more people who also don't like the new shiny house, and party with them. Since you weren't partying with friends anyway, it shouldn't matter too much.